Tough times are inevitable in life. People face a wide range of challenges daily—job loss, divorce, separation, debt, illness, the death of loved ones, loss of property, exam failure, and more. No matter how joyful or stable life may appear, adversity is bound to surface. A life without difficulty is a fantasy. Though no one wishes to experience hardship, the truth is that the challenges we face can become some of life’s greatest teachers—offering the power to transform our own journey or touch the lives of others. Often, it is through the most painful moments that we learn the most valuable lessons.

History is full of examples of men and women who, having walked through suffering, emerged with transformative ideas and built enduring legacies. Tough times break some, but forge others into record-breakers and history-makers. The choice is ours: we can either become victims of adversity or victors over it. While we may not control what happens to us, we can control how we respond. Setbacks can become stepping stones. Yes, you can turn your scars into stars.

I can say with absolute certainty: adversity never leaves us unchanged. Let me share two personal experiences that illustrate how life’s toughest moments shaped my path.

The first occurred during my final year at Mim Senior High School in the Ahafo Region of Ghana. In February 2004—just four months before the Senior Secondary School Certificate Examination—thieves broke into my locker and stole everything: textbooks, notebooks, and learning materials I had accumulated over two years. Coming from a poor family and having made great sacrifices to buy those books through odd jobs, I was devastated. For a week, I felt hopeless.

Overwhelmed, I shared my situation with Mr. Agyemang Duah, my government teacher. He encouraged me not to give up, reminding me, “Our problems can be blessings in disguise.” He lent me his government textbook and advised me to borrow other books from classmates. Even the headmaster, Mr. Kwabena Fosu Gyeabour, reached out to console me. Though the pain was deep, the words of encouragement began to resonate. After two weeks, I stopped hoping for the return of my books and began borrowing materials. I studied late into the night and woke up at 1 a.m. to make the most of the borrowed books.

That habit of intense study changed everything. In just four months, I learned more than I had in two years. I excelled in my exams and emerged among the top students. The loss became the catalyst for my academic transformation. That adversity birthed intellectual discipline that carried me through undergraduate and postgraduate studies, with straight A’s in over 40 courses. It ignited my passion for reading and learning—one I carry to this day.

The second incident took place in June 2015 while I was teaching at Methodist Senior High School in Berekum, Bono Region. In 2013, I heard about microfinance and investment schemes offering 80% interest in just three months. With my background in economics, I warned friends that these returns were unsustainable. But after a year, when friends continued profiting and expanding their wealth, I gave in to the pressure.

I began with GHS 5,000. In three months, I received GHS 9,000. Excited, I reinvested and was paid GHS 16,200. Blinded by rapid success, I took loans from three banks, paused my book business, and became an “investment evangelist,” encouraging others to join. By early 2015, I was thriving financially and had set my wedding for December.

But just before my investments matured in March, rumors surfaced that the Bank of Ghana had frozen the accounts of DKM. Within days, similar freezes hit God Is Love Fun Club and Perfect Edge. My life collapsed. I lost everything—savings, investments, wedding plans. Emotionally broken, I wept daily. My salary, heavily deducted due to loans, could barely feed me. Telling my 70-year-old mother I could no longer send money was one of the hardest moments of my life.

Then I remembered: I had 500 unsold copies of my study skills book, “How to Study Smarter and Succeed Academically,” with a friend in Tamale. Approved by the Ghana Education Service but previously sidelined due to my focus on investment returns, the books now became my lifeline. I began writing again. Through sleepless nights, I authored two more books—one on study strategies for youth and another on economics for West African high schools.

I sold all 500 books and used the proceeds to print more. Slowly, I rebuilt. Today, Asco Publications Limited boasts seven bestsellers used by students and teachers across Ghana. That failure taught me the hardest financial lesson of my life. But it also saved others, as I later warned them against Ponzi schemes like Menzgold. Indeed, the best lessons in life are learned during tough times.

Dear reader, there are hidden treasures in adversity. Take comfort in the words of Frank Lloyd Wright: “Man is built most nobly when limitations are at their greatest.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “People are like tea bags—you only know how strong they are when placed in hot water.” I never discovered my academic strength until my books were stolen. I never discovered my entrepreneurial resilience until financial ruin forced me to act.

No one is immune to hardship. Problems birth innovation and purpose. WhatsApp was born after Brian Acton was rejected by Facebook. Walt Disney was fired for lacking creativity—only to build an empire. Oprah Winfrey was told she was unfit for TV—before becoming a global icon. Are you facing personal, financial, or emotional challenges? Know this: adversity is not the end. It may be the beginning of your greatest opportunity.

Some strategies that have helped me through dark seasons include reframing pain as opportunity, opening up to trusted people, letting go of the past, and taking small, consistent steps toward a better future. Asking “Why me?” never solves anything. Instead, ask, “What can I do with what I have left?” Let your dreams of tomorrow guide your discipline today.

Don’t interpret your suffering as proof that God has abandoned you. Sometimes, it’s through hardship that He shapes us. What doesn’t break you, builds you. Keep going. Keep trusting. You will survive—and thrive.

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By Seiba Issifu

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