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FACING ADVERSITIES : LESSONS FOR LIFE

The finest steel always has to pass through the hottest fire. The journey to greatness for any achiever is often marked by insurmountable challenges, trials, temptations, frustrations, and disappointments. There can be no victory without adversity. The biblical Joseph had to endure heart-wrenching betrayal, pain, and frustration before reaching the destiny God had prepared for him. Similarly, Moses, Job, Jesus, and other prophets in both the Bible and the Qur’an faced suffering in the course of their divine missions. They were close to God, yet they were not spared from pain, betrayal, or setbacks. In fact, it was those very moments of hardship that molded, strengthened, and refined them, making them so impactful that their names are still remembered and honored long after their departure from this world.

Over the years, I have come to realize—both in theory and in practice—that everything that strengthens also hurts. We must learn to accept suffering and difficulty as part of God’s plan to shape us into better people. We shouldn’t always see darkness in every difficulty, because often, out of the worst situations, the best outcomes emerge.

There was once a blacksmith who worshipped God with a sincere heart. He tried to live according to God’s word. Yet, his life was filled with tragedy—the murder of his beloved wife and two children, the burning of his house, the loss of his business capital to robbers, and more. Many people around him could not understand why such suffering befell a good man like him.

One day, while recounting his pain, a childhood friend came to visit. They had been close growing up, but their adult lives had taken different paths. His friend, who lived carelessly, was thriving financially and emotionally. He asked, “You are a good man, yet you’ve suffered so much. People like me, who live anyhow, aren’t facing what you’re going through. Life is indeed a mystery.”

With a calm smile, the blacksmith replied, “My many years working with metals have taught me this: the finest tool must endure the hottest fire and the hardest hit from the heaviest hammer.” He paused, then continued:
“When I want to make a strong tool, I place a raw piece of metal into the fire. Then I strike it repeatedly with a heavy hammer to see if it will take temper. If it withstands the process, I know I can make something useful out of it. But if it cracks or warps, I throw it away. The fire and the hammer may feel like punishment, but they are part of the process that reveals strength and purpose. Likewise, I believe my suffering is part of God’s plan to refine me for something greater.”

His friend was deeply moved. Years later, that blacksmith became one of the wealthiest and most influential people in his country.

Every form of suffering—physical pain, emotional trauma, psychological stress—is temporary and serves a purpose. Nothing lasts forever. Tough times endure only as long as they need to teach us something. Once their mission is fulfilled, they pass. Tough times never last, but tough people do. Sometimes, the hardships we face are gifts in disguise—sent by a merciful God to enrich our inner lives.

Consider these real-life examples:

  • Thomas Edison had just three months of formal education and became deaf at age 12. Still, he became one of the greatest inventors in history. Later, he remarked, “I thank God I became deaf early. It saved me from wasting time listening to nonsense—and helped me focus on my inventions.”
  • Fanny Crosby, the famous blind hymn writer, lost her sight due to a medical error at just six weeks old. Instead of bitterness, she said, “If I could meet the doctor who made me blind, I’d say thank you.” Blindness was God’s gift—it allowed me to write songs that bless the world.” She went on to write over 8,000 hymns.
  • Stephen Hawking made groundbreaking contributions to science while paralyzed and unable to speak. He once wrote, “My scientific reputation grew at the same time my disability worsened.”
  • Beethoven, one of history’s greatest composers, wrote his most celebrated works while completely deaf.

The stories are endless.

Dear reader, understand this: God is a God of compassion, and His work is always rooted in mercy. Whatever suffering you are facing—be it in your personal life, marriage, career, or family—remember: the finest steel must pass through the hottest fire. Embrace adversity with faith and perspective. Beyond the dark clouds, the sun always returns to shine again.

Never lose hope in your darkest moments. No condition is permanent. What has a beginning also has an end. Don’t let your motivation fade when troubles come from all directions. What feels like the end of the road might simply be a bend. Keep going

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  1. C S Wisdom

    Your Comment Here…A superb article

    1. Seiba

      @ Wisdom, Thanks very much for your compliment

  2. Benjamin

    Nice one, very educative and encouraging

    1. Seiba

      @Benjamin, Oh Thanks very much for your compliment

  3. Moses Bayi Nkunapoan

    Sir and my Economics teacher as well. You are the best among the people I have met so far, I really appreciate your work, God bless you and continue to bless you

    1. Seiba

      Moses: Thank you for your compliment and prayers.

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